To be honest, Im so sick of hearing about how “different” someone is going to be after a break up. Shitty is more like it. People get so angry at the fact that their relationship didnt work out, they feel like they have to change who they are. Now don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing wrong with re-inventing yourself a little. New hair, maybe a new wardrobe and a new main focus never hurt anyone. But when people decide to start treating others different because you feel someone should pay for your ex’s mistakes that’s just stupid.
Your ex cheated on you? Well, that sucks and they’ll get whats coming. But why should I have to suffer for her mistake. Im so sick of guys thinking that they have to treat girls like shit to justify their failed relationship. If it didnt work out maybe it just wasnt meant to be, or maybe YOU fucked up. Regardless, do you think your going to find the right one if your treating them all like shit. They don’t owe you anything. If its that important for SOMEONE to feel as badly as you do, how about the person who caused you to feel that way in the first place? hmmmm? Or maybe your just not over her. Which means maybe you should take a time out and be by yourself for a while. No one deserves that bullshit.
I know who I am and what I’m looking for. I’m a ONE GUY KINDA GIRL, and thats not gonna up and change because some guy didn’t know what he had and let me go. Never have. He’s out there, and when I meet him he’ll have the best. Not the bitter peices of me stuck in the past. Psh! putting up we ME, he’ll deserve that much. LOL
