Now I don’t want to get caught up in this “whether all guys are the same or not” debate. However,I would appriciate it if someone could help me understand this…
I don’t understand it when a guy sees a girl that he might like in a relationship with a guy who’s mistreating her (not abusively), or see/hear a girl ranting about how “all guys are jerks” they get so defensive and quick say “NOT ALL GUYS ARE THE SAME” “HE MAY BE LIKE THAT, BUT IM NOT” “I WOULD NEVER DO THAT TO YOU”. How can you POSSIBLY believe that when in just about every relationship YOU’VE been in, you’ve mistreated her just the same.. if not worse. Is that not why your single now? I mean, Im not saying everything was your fault but take a step back and think. How many relationships (established) have you had? && they ALL failed? Why? Think about everything that girl you like is going through with her asshole of a boyfriend. Now be honest with yourself, have you done those same things?
Making the decision to treat one girl different form another doesn’t make you “different from every other guy”. If anything, it makes you a discriminatory asshole!
