She Thinks Too Much.

First Loves are always the hardest. They introduce you to world of feelings that only a person who has experienced it as well can understand..or atleast attempt to. First love is fickle but intense, naive and full of curiosity. Above all, it sets the tone for your future relationships, it shapes the way you’ll interpret love for the rest of your life. You never forget your first love, they’ll always have your heart. Its like that John Cusack reference in “Serendipity”…. Future love is like The God Father Pt.2, its an incredible movie it might even be better than the original. But no matter how much you love The God Father Pt.2, you still have to see the original to understand and appreciate the sequel.. Lol

Great Loves are just as intense, confusing and complicated. Great love tries its hardest to be conventional, but is deeply flawed. Great love will make you question what it is that is most important in life, whether its being with the person you love, or being happy. A great love can ultimately make you feel like you shouldn’t want to be, make you forget what you deserve.  They are honest and never afraid to hurt your feelings, which they will…alot. Most importantly, great loves are all consuming loves that shake you to your core, after which your never the same. Like first loves, they can set the tone for future relationships. Unlike first loves, although you never forget your great love they can be let go. It takes strength to recover when someone leaves you, but it takes courage to walk away from the one you love. And it takes self love and honesty to know when you deserve better. Great loves become apart of you they  are the crazy ones, the ones people write sonnets and epic novels about, they can be amazing or toxic but they arent any less filled with love.

Right Loves, are the Aiden Shaws and Louis Grimaldi’s of the world. Right Loves are the good on paper guys, the ones fairytales made you believe all guys were like. Right love is like Great Loves opposite. Theyre the guy that every girl deseveres, but not everygirl wants. Unlike Great love, the right love isnt afraid to be honest, but is cautious because it is never theyre intention to hurt you. They can be very predictible but their safe, they make every decision with you in mind. They put your love first, and do their best to make you happy. Right Loves are the way God himself intended for love to be, but somehow, somewhere along the way happiness lost its value and people are starting to find Love in pain.

True Love is the most important label of them all, in a sense that your true love is the one your meant to be with. True Love can be found in a first love, great love or right love or no none of them at all. Your true love, is that person you love unconditionally. The one that no matter how far apart you are, who your with or why it ended, you always find your way back to each other. In the face of true love, you just don’t give up, even when the object of your affection is begging you too. True Love burns the brightest, it brings out the best version of you. True love consumes you, and it never fades. True love hurts, but only because love itself hurts. True love embraces flaws. Above all, no matter how long it may take to find true love, when it is found It will always feel like your First.

(Source: shethinkstoomuch)