January 2012
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Choosing to stay with someone who mistreats, disrespects or is hurting you,...
– - Adara
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What Makes You Different From Every Other Guy?
Now I don’t want to get caught up in this “whether all guys are the same or not” debate. However,I would appriciate it if someone could help me understand this…
I don’t understand it when a guy sees a girl that he might like in a relationship with a guy who’s mistreating her (not abusively), or see/hear a girl ranting about how “all guys are jerks”...
The Fabulous 5
Things have definatley changed since highschool. Its sucks that we’re no longer as close as we used to be. Some of us talk, some don’t, some not as much as we used to. Thats what happens when you let childish things come between friendship. The Fabulous 5. I just have to say that im proud of every single last one of us. I was thinking a few days ago, we were 5 completely and...
Tigris New York
So Ive managed to do exactly what I didn’t want to. I had this idea in high school to start a little simple clothing line, mostly t-shirt based. Not interning or working I decided early last year that it’d be good to revisit that idea. I feel so lame when people ask me what Im doing and all I have to say is “I’m in school” and LaGuardia Community College no less. I figured since I can’t...
December 2011
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True Love Waits...
Im in Love… Yes I said it… Im in Love, and I have been for almost a year now. But Im single… Yes I said it…Im single. Complicated? You couldn’t even imagine. I’m caught between a rock and a hard place you see, im in love with someone I cant be with..right now.(yes, its the same person i mentioned in the “Long Story Short” post)…As much as I...
autumnlovesautumn asked: i love your blog! you should check mine out. good almost morning by the way :)
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Random Thoughts...
As much as I may hate to admit the effect some of my past relationships have had on me, the truth remains. Smh. Sitting in my room around 5:30 am this morning working on my designs and researching, I realized I needed to make room for a design folder on my computer. Going through and organizing already exsisting photos and documents I came across my “Blackberry Curve” file, the file I saved...
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4 Labels of Love. by Adara
First Loves are always the hardest. They introduce you to world of feelings that only a person who has experienced it as well can understand..or atleast attempt to. First love is fickle but intense, naive and full of curiosity. Above all, it sets the tone for your future relationships, it shapes the way you’ll interpret love for the rest of your life. You never forget your first love,...
September 2011
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Anonymous asked: because it doesnt really match your blog, which is awesome by the way! im not insulting you, and btwdubs, dont you want some change? aaha
Anonymous asked: you should change your URL!
July 2011
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They say that I been changing, that I'm not just...
…Well thats what I’ve been hearing anyway. It’s no secret Ive been in a rut this summer, but its not because Im changing. Sure, Im getting older, a bit wiser and Im more focused on my future now more than Ive ever been, but Im still me.
I’ve spent years hoping, wishing and dreaming that the day would come where I could change something I didnt like about myself, and when...
June 2011
2 posts
Long Story Short
I’ve been in kind of a slump lately, not really into doing much. You’d think that I’d be at a party every other day what with all this new found freedom, but lately I just haven’t had the urge. It’s a phase, one that I go through every couple years. As depressing as I’ve become lately I have to admit there only 2 things that have me worried.
One: My friends,...
Love & Money
I really do wish people would grow up and take responsibility for their fuck ups, instead of justifying thier failed relationships with the desire to be successful. Your were an asshole, just admit it. Maybe if you did you could learn from your mistakes so the next person doesn’t have to go through what you put the last one through. Something has to change. Until then “success”...
May 2011
5 posts
100 Random Facts About Me...(1 - 33)
My birthday is Nov 25 (incase you wanted to send me something nice)
I hate my school.
I truly believe FRIENDS is the best sitcom EVER.
I bite my nails.
I own 13 pair of Converse.
When I’m alone I dance like a total whore. Seriously.
I still color. Like. Pictures of cartoons and stuff.
I major in Marketing.
I minor in Entrepreneurship.
I could’t care less about basketball.
I...
The Good, The Bad && The Epic...
Im only about half way through my day and its already been a roller-coaster. Had too much on my mind to sleep last night, so I didn’t fall asleep until 6am and had to be up at 8am. JOY! I basically dragged myself to school, I slept through English, and im starving. I was starving yesterday too, which caused me to eat about 400 calories over my daily limit. (yes, I’m counting cals...
Congratulations are In Order...
I have just been informed that this blog now reaches 3 whole people…Including me. YAYYYYY!!!!!! Lmao. Thats ok, its personal its not for the ENTIRE world to see.
Unforgivable...
Soo I just recently made a decision that most people might think isn’t such a big deal. But seeing as though I’m addicted to social networking, I beg to differ. Lol.It’s no secret that for the last month, most of my posts have been centered around someone I was recently in a relationship with. && that’s because I don’t hide how a feel, EVER, if its on my mind,...
The Epiphany...
I’ve decided that I’m going to be the absolute BITCH that some people expect me to be. && make no mistake; this isn’t me changing to justify ANYTHING. This IS and has always been one of many sides to my personality. It just takes a lot to get me to this point. The point where I really DON’T GIVE A SHIT!!! I’ve given some people SOOOO many chances, and I have been SOOOO patient, I’ve...
April 2011
6 posts
Happy Easter.
I have to say, I miss the days when I used to believe in the Easter Bunny and Santa Claus. When mom would spend a small fortune on eggs, food coloring, stickers and arts an craft. And we’d spend hours in the living-room putting up the tree and decorating the walls and the banister while the Jackson 5 Christmas album played on the old record player.
After the big accident it seemed like...
The Aftermath...
Question. Have you ever been in a relationship, and was more pissed about how you broke up rather than the problem that caused the breakup?? Shit is crazy, Post-its, text messages, voicemail, IMs, the whole mutual friend thing. Coward much?? Smdh.
Personally, I havent had much experience in the dating world so I havent had many breakups. But one thing seems to be for certain, I find that Im...
All I Need In This Life of Sin, Is Me and My...
It’s a Saturday night and Im home on my couch eating Chinese watching re-runs of Sex and the City with my bestfriend on OoVoO. Lmao. Pathetic?? Nooo, not even a bit. Over the past year we have turned the episodes of Sex and the City into our own person guide to life and love. It even suprises me how much a couple of 18 year olds can have...
One Guy Kind of Girl...
To be honest, Im so sick of hearing about how “different” someone is going to be after a break up. Shitty is more like it. People get so angry at the fact that their relationship didnt work out, they feel like they have to change who they are. Now don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing wrong with re-inventing yourself a little. New hair, maybe a new wardrobe and a new main...
Adara Carrie Bradshaw (Continued.)
Now personally, Samantha Jones has always been my favorite. But Ive sunk into a depression only Miss Bradshaw can relate to. Its been exactly 9 days since we broke up, and I’m not exactly sure how to feel. You see, we’ve been dating on and off for 14 months and even though its brought me some of the worst feelings ive ever felt if you asked me “When were you happiest in...
Adara Carrie Bradshaw.
So, Ive changed my name for the week. I am no longer Adara Tiana Mitchell, you may call me Adara Carrie Bradshaw. You’re probably wondering why, aren’t you? Lol. I change my name according to how I feel, or my curresnt situation. And seeing as how Ive had the sudden urge to write about my life, my feeling and my relationships…The name suited me OH SO well.
December 2010
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